bigstrads wrote: Im the most negative person here??? seriously? well, man............Id like to see some of your "examples" of "fact" about that.
Actually man, I just searched all your posts looking for examples and I must say ive seen a lot of smiley face and winks… But your 2nd favorite smiley is the headbanging or sad face and I guess your constant swearing has me painting you as a typical whinger.
Honestly BIGS, I don’t know you to well and I’d probably retract my comment about you being the most negative.. I guess that title belongs to bada for reasons he knows why :P
But you’ve just left me with a bad feeling as always crying. I could dig up the posts that have irritated me, But I don’t really feel like doing it cause I don’t wanna add feul to a fire when I’m kind of regressing on my whole theory, K?
Well..........of course, I know and fully admit that I post alot of angry/ranting/swearing stuff.
But that is all born out of my passion and love for my team, that I cant stand to see a single thing go wrong.............after 18 years now, EVERY
bad move STILL
hurts me to my very core and with my willingness to be completely open and honest with you guys here, at all times, this obviously puts me in the firing line to be deemed as "negative" or "whiney"
So be it............those who understand me and recognise that, know that its not really me being negative, its just my passion and love for my team getting the better of me.
Simply, if theres a positive thing to talk about...........then I either point it out, mostly the first one to do so, or I talk about it and recognise it as a postitive...........I could name about 7 regular people here who do nothing but look straight to the negatives, and do nothing but turn positives into negatives.
PAWNOGRAFFITI wrote: bigstrads wrote: 7 -
Go back and read the first post and reason for this exact thread............if you bothered, you would see that its a celebration and big thanks to all my friends here who have got me through this difficult year off...........pretty positive in my obviously negative mind.
Yes I read the first thread… you showed us all love, But it was so anti climatic that you would want to quit after a day. Most people bite the bullet and get on with life. I know you don’t wanna be stuck in a job you don’t enjoy doing… but seriously your comments about your staff members being idiots or deadshits is quite pretentious. You gotta give people a chance and you obviously have a short temper and narrow mind- It was basically you saying “Your better than them. And you ain’t really given them a chance”
Of course it was anti-climactic...........IT WAS ME GOING THROUGH IT REMEMBER!!!
Im the one that has to suffer through this, and again my willingness to share whatever is going on in my life, and how I honestly feel about it is my downfall yet again...........but also who I am, and I wont stop, even if it gives me the reputation of being a "whinger"..........Im just being honest and open.
If Id had not said anything about the problems I was having, you probably wouldnt have made your post, as it obviously tipped you over the edge as far as your opinion of me.
Simply put, I KNOW
, that if any one of you guys (or anyone with even half a brain) had been in my position, youd say the same..............trust me, this is not just me moaning about this company, this company is by far the worst I have ever seen (out of 8 different financial organisations I have worked for ).........and the people there are incredibly narrow minded in a business sense, completely dis-organised and just plain stupid.
The fact that EVER SINGLE ONE
of the other new people that started around my time, said the exact same things as me, and some worse, shows that its not just me who thinks this............and as far as me saying "I am better than them" and being "Pretentious"............well, I am better than them, anyone who really knows me knows that and has told me so!
So again.............I tell you guys that stuff because I like to be honest and open with my friends (to whom this thread was aimed at)
The sad thing for me is that if one of you guys had this situation and were talking as I was..............I would simply support that person, because at the end of the day I wouldnt know the real situation and couldnt comment on it as "clearly" and as NEGATIVELY
as you have............I would have no right to do that because A:
I am not that person and I wouldnt know what they have been through in their life and B:
I am not in that situation and hence do not know how bad it really is and all the other mitigating circumstances that would be involved.
Ps: Please note that if I didnt respect and value your opinion as I do/did............then I would normally be ranting and swearing my ass of at you...........but Im not, Im talking rationally because you simply have it all wrong, and in those instances I want to explain myself and gain your understanding that it isnt perhaps as it seems.*EDIT*
- After reading your reply to Bada.
The J-Rich thing.............why do you, and everyone for that matter, think that I do that? seriously, Id like to know...........and with how I treat/reply to anyone who treats this place and its members with nothing but contempt and no respect.
I am very protective over things that I love, and I love this place and many people on it............and when I see people who try and bring it down, I want to bring them down.
PAWNOGRAFFITI wrote:You've said some really disturbing things
I tell you what, do me a one favour, and find ONE
of these "distrubing" things that lead you to believe what you do...........as I cant comprehend how someone would label me as that, so have no concept of what you talking..........and hence cannot recognise/change it because I really have no clue about what you mean.
Id like an opportunity to see one of them and to either acknowledge it and adhere to what your saying............or explain how you may have interpreted it wrong.